I agree with “People are unhappy in large part because they are confused about what is valuable” but I’d also add “to them.”
I am currently going through the process of trying to figure out what to do next and what is valuable to me. What are my gifts? What do I like to do best? What would I spend all day doing? I have yet to figure out I want to do.
I have the luxury of time to figure it out but the attention span of a toddler amped on sugar at Disneyland.
The only thing I do know is that I’m not doing what I’m meant to do.